TAURUS PARENT..CAPRICORN PARENT..

Earthy and practical


Taurus Parent - Patient, practical and purely indulgent

As a Taurus parent, you are a wonderfully grounding influence in your children's lives. Practical and patient, you're always ready with a smile and a cuddle. You have a good sense of what truly matters, so you rarely get angry or annoyed about the little things.

You do need to be careful not to spoil your little ones though! You're a total pushover when it comes to your children’s requests for cake, ice-cream, trips to the cinema, the list goes on. You just want to make them happy, but the key is everything in moderation.

Making sure your children eat well and get plenty of exercise shouldn't be too much of a problem for you. You're naturally comfortable running around outside. You also enjoy a wide range of healthy foods that you love sharing with your family.

Your children are likely to be pretty secure in your love. You're affectionate and enjoy kisses and cuddles with your little ones. You'll teach your children all about the core Taurus values of loyalty, hard work and staying power.

You enjoy being surrounded by the people, pets and possessions you value most, so your family home is most likely a cluttered, colourful and comfortable place.

When your children do and say things you don't expect, do try to compromise. Stubbornness is something you struggle with, but children need open-mindedness as well as stability.


Capricorn Parent - A master provider

As a Capricorn parent, your focus is on working hard for your family and meeting your responsibilities. In fact, you may work a little too hard! Your intentions are good, but you can place too much importance on being a dutiful provider and not enough on other things that truly matter. Spending quality time with your children and developing a warm, nurturing connection with them should be high on your list of priorities too.

You might be more comfortable with the demands of your career and trying to make ends meet than you are with your children’s emotional worries. However Capricorns, by nature, seek constant improvement, so if there's something lacking in your relationship with your children, you can identify the problem and work to correct it.

You'll teach your children about the value of money and reliability, and you'll educate them in the importance of keeping their promises. In fact, you'll be a real authority figure in their lives. They'll respect you and at times you might even intimidate them without realising it, or meaning to do so.

Part of your job as a parent will be learning to lighten up a bit and become more affectionate and spontaneous. This way, you can create a balance between work and play, and your children will love and appreciate you even more for the effort. You'll set a positive example for them when it comes to maturity, planning and working steadily towards goals. Just don't be too hard on them if they're not quite as driven as you are.


Combination of Tarus & Capricorn
You two make a dedicated and practical parenting team, clear about the ways in which you will raise your children and firm in your conviction that they will amount to something. With a work ethic like this, your sons and daughters will know what the rules are and that consequences will clearly follow if, and when, they are broken.

Of the two of you, the Taurus parent is more gentle and approachable, if perhaps a bit indulgent and pretty stubborn. The Capricorn parent, on the other hand, may be more worldly-wise and able to guide children through life's harder lessons.

One danger in this combination is the risk of placing more importance on money or work than on family. At the end of the day, the people who will benefit most from your strength, determination and devotion will be those who are closest to you.


Alamak..dah kene bersedia nak jadi mak bapak yg baik pulak ni..

ORANG BARU??? YEKE???

Selamat Pengantin Baru kat Momay yang telah berjaya dinikahkan pada 6/2/2011.. berjaya jugak aku sampai menyaksikan majlis bersejarah itu..aku p ngan my hubby n farah..sepupunya si nadia tu dah pegi dulu dah..shopping-shopping..si leli n family, zaza, finaz pula bertolak bersama-sama..kitorang berjumpa di kelantan di homestay yg telah ditempah khas..tapi aku balik ngan farah n finaz bersama hubby terchenta..so bertambah la lagi sorang orang baru dalam family si momay nih..gembira-gembira..




Balik je dari kelantan tu..esoknya sepatutnya aku cuti..saja maleh p kerja..tapi bantainya aku muntah2 tak berenti..lemah longlai badan aku..terpaksa la si hubby aku ni bawak p klinik..aku btau la period aku dah lewat dah seminggu lebih, pastu asik la muntah2 semenjak cuti raya cina ari tu..sian aku kat atas flight p kelantan tu asik nahan muntah je..so doktor tu tanya la aku dah kawin baper lamer..aku jawabla setahun..pastu dia gelak..dia kata 'ala baru lagi tu'..ader ke doktor tu cakap cenggitu..

Pastu doktor tu suh la aku buat urine test..aku dah tergolek2 dah kat luo bilik doc tu tunggu result..bila dia panggil aku masuk..boleh lak doc tu cakap 'lama dah awak simpan ni'..hubby i lagi la blurr-blurr..apa la doc ni cakap..then dia tunjuk result test tu..ada la 2 line..so dia kata la aku ni dah pregnant 5 minggu nak masuk 6 minggu..pastu seperti biasa..dapat la aku asid folik untuk jadi mknn rutin skang ni..

Yang si hubby i ni plak tak puas hati sbb tak dapat tgk result test tu..esoknyer dia beli pregnancy test..aku pun buat la test tu lagi sekali..tunjuk la kat dia pasal 2 line merah tu..baru la dia faham..dia siap ingat kalau ada 2 line tu maksudnya kembar lagi..hahahaha


Semenjak tu lagi la..apa je aku mkn kuo balik..siksanya hidup..terpaksa lagi pegi klinik..minta mc..doktor singh ni bagus..siap bagi nasihat apa kene buat bila bgn tido..apa boleh mkn buat masa ni..apa yg tokleh..dia bagi la ubat utk tahan pening/muntah n Gaviscon..dia kater ubat tu je boleh utk org pregnant ni..so..seminggula aku plan nak tergolek kat umah..

Sekali..dapat la call yang mak ngah aku meninggal selepas buat operation cancer rahim..innalillahiwainnailaihirajiun..dengan keadaan lemah longlai ni pegi la pula ke gombak untuk majlis pengebumian dan bacaan tahlil..kat stuh je sehari aku tak mkn apa-apa..takut muntah..dok kat kubur tu lagi la..dah la masa tu panas..mcm nak pengsan dah rasanya..so sedara mara belah mak aku ni dah tau la berita aku pegnan ni..

Tadi ada meeting unit..so aku pun announce la yang aku pegnan and suh diorang bersiap sedia sbb maybe masa Business Plan 2012 nanti..aku tak sempat nak buat..hahaha..so skang nih tgh train staff yg ada utk menggantikan aku nanti..bos aku tu punya la baik..dia kater tak yah la amik Urgent Leave kalau tak larat dtg keje..just inform dia je nak keje dari rumah..teleworking..huhu..so..dalam seminggu ada la aku p keje 2 or 3 hari je..

Tapi..mmg serius sumer org kater aku dah kurus..4 minggu pertama tak la serius sgt..tapi masuk minggu ke 5 tu..tak larat..patut la selalunya org tau dia pegnan masa minggu ke 5..sbb masa tu baru pening2 n muntah2..

HMM..DIMANAKAH AKU PADA 2010?? EPPY BDAY MY DEAREST HUBBY

Huhu..lamer giler tak update blog ni..2010 langsung tak update..naper????konon bz la menempuh hidup baru as isteri mithali la konon..
Tapi mmg tak der aper pun..pas majlis nikah 10.10 2009 di Slim and 17.10.2009 di Shah Alam....kitorang p honeymoon kat Genting 3 hari 2 malam..20-22.10.2009..waktu kitorang kat Genting tu..my parents in law p honeymoon kat PWTC..maklumla my mother in law diraikan dalam Prog Jasamu Di Kenang..selepas berpuluh2 tahun berkhidmat di TM..

Masa tahun 2009 tu la tahun paling bz dalam hidup aku..maklumla..beberapa unit yg sebelum ni mempunyai bos masing2 telah disatukan di bawah aku yg kerdil ni..amik kau..habis dengan hubby2 aku dikerah utk buat keje..masa tu hubby to be..sian dia..tapi sempat juga tu menggatal nak kawin..hahahah..2 hari sebelum kawin tu mak siap call aku suh balik cepat..byk keje tak settle lagi kononnya..aku pun terpaksa la balik..sambung buat keje kat Slim pulak sampai mlm sebelum nikah tu..saper suh aku nikah time tengah sibuk buat Business Plan..padan muka aku..makcik2 tu siap membebel suh aku pakai inai..kol 2 pagi baru aku pakai..huhu

Pastu aku ingat dah nak masuk keje dah 26.10.2010..tapi mlm tu, aku mendapat khabar sedih pemergian Allahyarham atok kesayanganku pada 25.10.2010..2 minggu selepas perkahwinan aku..aku extend lagi cuti aku..alhamdulillah..sempat jugak dia tgk aku kawin..cucunya yang sungguh degil dan suka melawan ni..

Lebih kurang 3 bulan aku menetap di Shah Alam..then, selepas siap renovation (grill and kitchen cabinet) di rumah yang aku beli kat Setapak tu..kitorang pun plan la untuk berpindah dan hidup berdikari sebagai suami isteri pada 9.1.2010..bukan apa nak pindah cepat sgt tu..sian pula kat parents in law aku..aku buat rumah diorang mcm hotel pulak..keluar awal pagi..balik lewat mlm..serba salah rasanya..tapi sian jugak la kat diorang..sbb diorang pun masa tu tinggal berdua je..so kami suami isteri ni buat la schedule..sebulan ada 4 minggu..1 minggu balik Shah Alam..1 minggu lagi balik Slim..2 minggu lagi dok kat umah..kemas rumah ..huhu

So apa yang kitorang buat dalam 2010 di rumah baru??of cause la memenuhkan umah..beli set bilik tidur kitorang..beli dapur, peti ais, washing machine, kabinet tv and rak buku..ada ke mak aku suh angkut semua buku2 aku ke rumah baru aku..dia kata menyemak je kat rumah dia..tak patut betul..pastu baru beli sofa..meja mkn (awal2 dulu meja mkn kitorang is meja office TM yang dah terbuang tu)..pastu beli tilam dan rak baju untuk 2 bilik yang tak tau akan dihuni oleh siapa tu..buat masa ni guest room la..baru2 ni beli TV sbb tv yang kitorang pakai sekarang pinjam dari my parents in law..tunggu UNIFI masuk kat umah kitorang, then baru pulangkan..huhu

Barang2 lain kebanyakannya dah dapat masa hadiah kawin ari tu..kitorang mmg gunakan sepenuhnya..terima kasih for all the wedding gifts..tapi 2 barang aku dah pecahkan..1 lagi tu mmg dapat dah sompek..so aku jadikan ala2 mangkuk perhiasan dengan diisi bunga kat dalamnya..

So kesimpulannya..pas kawin je..dalam masa setahun tu keje kitorang adalah melawat kedai2 perabot..untuk menambah isi rumah..skang setakat yang basic tu sumer dah ada..So, 2011 ni nak buat apa??ha..menambah ahli rumah pulak..hahhahah

ARI NIH ARI APA??HUHU..EPPY BDAY MY BELOVED HUBBY..LOVE U SO VERY MUCH..MMUUUAAAHHHH..

INA HAMID'S WEDDING 13/12/2009

Event penting untuk bulan December...huhuhu
Congrats dear...moga bahagia hingga ke akhir hayat....
I pegi wedding my dearest ni ngan my hubby (baru je 2 bulan kawin)and my parents ke Lenggong...

DUA KISAH BERBEZA...

Don't Cry Joni by Conway Twitty

Woman - Jimmy please say you'll wait for me
I'll grow up someday you'll see
Saving all my kisses just for you
Signed with love forever true.

Man - Joni was the girl who lived next door
I've known her I guess ten years or more.
Joni wrote me a note one day.
And this is what she had to say.

Woman - Jimmy please say you'll wait for me
I'll grow up someday you'll see
Saving all my kisses just for you
Signed with love forever true.

Man - Slowly I read her note once more
Then I went over to the house next door
Her tear-drops fell like rain that day
When I told Joni what I had to say.
Joni, Joni please don't cry
You'll forget me by and by
You're just fifteen and I'm twenty two,
and Joni I just can’t wait for you.
Soon I left our little home town,
Got me a job and tried to settle down
But these words kept haunting my memory,
the words that Joni said to me.

Woman - Jimmy please say you'll wait for me
I'll grow up some day you'll see
Saving all my kisses just for you
Signed with love forever true.

Man - I packed my clothes and I caught a plane
and I had to see Joni. I had to explain,
how my heart was filled with her memory
and ask my Joni if she'd marry me
I ran all the way to the house next door
but things weren't like they were before
My tear-drops fell like rain that day
When I heard what Joni had to say.

Woman - Jimmy, Jimmy please don't cry
You'll forget me by and by.
It's been five years since you've been gone
Jimmy, I - (married) - your best friend John.


Diana by Paul Anka

I'm so young and you're so old,
This my darling I've been told.
I don´t care just what they say,
'Cause forever I will pray,
You and I will be as free,
As the birds up in the trees.
Oh, please, stay by me, Diana.

Thrills I get when you hold me close,
Oh, my darling, you're the-a most.
I love you. But do you love me?
Oh, Diana, can't you see,
I love you with all my heart
And I hope we will never part.
Oh, please, stay with me, Diana.

Oh, my darlin', oh, my lover,
Tell me that there is no other.
I love you with my heart,
Oh-oh, oh-oh, oh-oh, Oh-oh-oh-oh-oh-oh, oh.

Only you can take my heart.
Only you can tear it apart.
When you hold me in your lovin' arms,
I can feel you giving all your charms.
Hold me darling, hold me tight.
Squeeze me baby with-a all your might.
Oh, please, stay by me, Diana.
Oh, please, Diana. Oh, please, Diana

Seven-Year Itch

Here are John Gray’s 7 Itch-Proof Steps for a Solid Marriage:

1. Talk things out. If one of you has an issue with the other, get it out in the open. But remember: Don’t use blame to make your point.

2. Guys: Ask her how her day went. And when you do, be specific. Mention her job, or the kids, or her parents. She’ll appreciate it, because it demonstrates that you really care.

3. Show your love by touching. Hugs and kisses are the easiest (not to mention funnest) way to stay connected.

4. Do things together->Make dates, without the kids. Take walks. Work out at the gym together. Get away for the weekend, at least once a quarter. As you both loosen up, you’ll love each other even more.

5. And do things apart. A night out with friends may actually make you appreciate your marriage more. Besides, absence does make the heart grow fonder.

6. Be sensitive to your partner’s stress. Anxiety puts men in their caves, and puts women on edge. If you see that your loved one is stressed out, give some breathing room, but let him or her know that you’re there when it’s time to talk – and unload.

7. Don’t be afraid to say -I love you- Those words have meaning. They express your commitment to your marriage, and that’s what it’s all about.

JEMPUTAN PERKAHWINAN - DEQNO & NAJAM (10 OKTOBER 2009)

Assalamualaikum Wbt. dan Salam Satu Malaysia,

My dearest friends,

Dengan segala hormatnya saya ingin menjemput rakan taulan sekalian ke Majlis Perkahwinan kami (Norafizah Mohd Izat & Mohd Nor Najamudin Abdul Halim) pada 10 Oktober 2009 di Slim River, Perak atau 17 Oktober 2009 di Shah Alam, Selangor. Pasangan dan ahli keluarga juga adalah dijemput untuk memeriahkan lagi majlis kami.

Dikesempatan ini juga saya ingin mengucapkan Selamat Aidil Fitri dan Maaf Zahir & Batin.

Doakan semoga hubungan yang baru dibina ini berkekalan sehingga ke akhir hayat.

Jemput datang ye......

TAZKIRAH UNTUK HARI INI...

TANDA TANGKAP CINTAN???UPS...

Tanda2 awal jatuh chenta.. cheeeeeeeewahhh..mcm mana kalau asik jatuh chenta je plak???

1) You ada ramai kawan tapi dalam banyak-banyak tu you asyik ingat kat dia sorang jer..dia sihat ke tak..dia dah makan ke belum..dia ingat kat you ke tak.
2) You jadi resah gelisah kalau tak dapat dengar suara dia, You jadi malap, kelabu asap, tapi bila dengar suara dia YOU automatik segar bugar, perut lapar terus kenyang..
3) Uiii.. You cemburu bila dia bercerita tentang kecantikan perempuan lain. Kekadang YOU rasa You kecik hati dengan dia pasal asyik cerita pasal orang lain yang lebih hebat dari YOU.
4) YOU dapat jumpa dia sekali jer dalam sebulan so bila dapat jumpa dia YOU rasa macam dunia ni YOU yang punya. Balik rumah wajah dia asyik terbayang di mata YOU tapi YOU pun hairan kenapa YOU mesti ada perasaan macam tu terhadap dia..
5) Surat, kad raya, tiket bas, sampah atau apa saja pemberian darinya, YOU simpan sampai penuh almari rumah YOU. Kalau ada lipas gigit salah satu barang pemberian darinya pasti mampus lipas tu YOU gigit balik...uiii..ganehnyer.. wakakakak....
6) Kadang kala YOU sengaja buat perangai nak bagi dia jeles kat YOU tapi dia sikit pun takder respon sebaliknya YOU sendiri yang makan hati..tapi YOU tak sedar kenapa You buat macam tu..kenapa You nak bagi dia jeles katYou?
7) YOU percaya padanya. YOU sedia berkongsi apa saja cerita dengannya. YOU juga suka mendengar celotehnya walaupun kadang-kala ceritanya membosankan You tapi You tetap sudi melayan karenahnya.
8) Bila family YOU sebut pasal jodoh, YOU cakap belum ada calon tapi dalam kepala otak YOU dok terbayang-bayang YOU bersanding dengan dia..cis!!
9) Hmm...itu adalah secebis perasaan YOU kat dia namun apakah makna perasaan tersebut? Nak kata kawan biasa..kenapa You treat dia baguih semacam jer? Alah mengaku sajalah yang You ni dah jatuh hati padanya..
AND, last but not least...
10) YOU tau tak mengikut survey, itu adalah sebahagian daripada tanda-tanda awal orang yang dah JATUH CINTA. Perasaan tu sedikit sebanyak akan menyiksa diri You sendiri. YOU tau kenapa? Sebab You punya ego tu tinggi sangat...apa susah sangat ker You nak declare yang You ni betul-betul falling in love kat dia..ops..i'm sorry... perempuan memang la susah sikit takut perigi cari timba pulak kan..tapi setiap orang ada cara tersendiri..

" kecewa CINTA ditolak adalah lebih baik daripada kecewa terlepas CINTA"... heh...so, amacam? tepuk dada tanye hati! memane ler yg korang suke??

YOU ARE EVERYTHING TO SOMEBODY

Right now at this very minute-----------


someone is very proud of you
someone is thinking of you
someone cares about you
someone misses you
someone wants to talk to you
someone wants to be with you
someone hopes you aren't in trouble
someone is thankful for the support you have provided
someone wants to hold your hand
someone hopes everything turns out all right
someone wants you to be happy
someone wants you to find them
someone is celebrating your successes
someone wants to give you a gift
someone think you ARE a gift
someone hopes you are not too cold, or too hot
someone wants to hug you
someone loves you
someone wants to lavish you with small gifts
someone admires your strength
someone is thinking of you and smiling
someone wants to be your shoulder to cry on
someone wants to go out with you and have a lot of fun
someone thinks the world of you
someone wants to protect you
someone would do anything for you
someone wants to be forgiven
someone is grateful for your forgiveness
someone wants to laugh with you about old times
someone remembers you and wishes you were there
someone is praising God for you
someone needs to know that your love is unconditional
somebody values your advice
someone wants to tell you how much they care
someone wants to stay up watching old movies with you
someone wants to share their dreams with you
someone wants to hold you in their arms
someone wants YOU to hold them in your arms
someone treasures your spirit
someone wishes they could STOP time because of you
someone praises God for your friendship and love
someone can't wait to see you
someone wishes that things didn't have to change
someone loves you for who you are
someone loves the way you make them feel
someone wants to be with you
someone is hoping they can grow old with you
someone hears a song that reminds them of you
someone wants you to know they are there for you
someone is glad that you're their friend
someone wants to be your friend
someone stayed up all night thinking about you
someone is alive because of you
someone is remorseful after losing your friendship
someone is wishing that you would notice them
someone wants to get to know you better
someone believes that you are their soul mate
someone wants to be near you
someone misses your guidance and advice
someone values your guidance and advice
someone has faith in you
someone trusts you
someone needs your support
someone needs you to have faith in them
someone needs you to let them be your friend
someone will cry when they read this


kalau betulla...terharu rasanya...mcm nak nangis....hehehe

KELAPA BALI.....AKAR DAN BUMI

Untuk ***** yang tak tau kelapa bali tu apa...hahahaha...anyway...lagu ni mmg memuhasabahkan diri kita....fikir-fikirkan dan selamat beramal....

Tinggi-tinggi kelapa bali
Kental berdiri
Akar di bumi
Walau bermusim di terik mentari
Tidak sekali lupakan diri

Bila menari dongak ke langit
Langkah mu sumbang salahkan bumi
Silap sendiri tak dipeduli
Terbiar sudah membuta tuli
Baru tengadah menyesali diri

Ikutkan rasa kelak binasa
Kerasnya hati membawa mati
Pentingkan dosa sumpah bertakhta
Megah ilusi mejadi mimpi
Panasnya diri bagai dibakar api

Tinggi-tinggi kelapa bali
Walaupun tinggi kental berdiri
Tidak pernah lupa diri
Tidak pernah megah diri
Mencengkam akar di bumi

Rimbun-rimbun pohon dedalu
Tinggi di atas sombongkan diri
Pandang langit lupa bumi
Pandang langit lupa bumi
Menumpang menunggu mati

SUMMARY: MEN ARE FROM MARS, WOMEN FROM VENUS

Dr. John Gray author of the best seller “Men are from Mars, women are from Venus”
Dr. Gray mentioned as a preamble to his talk that when his book ‘Men are from Mars, Women from Venus’ had come out he was questioned whether one can make generalizations in terms of the behaviour of men and women. The only response he gave was whether they resonated with what was written in the book and 100% of the time they replied ‘Yes’.

1. The differences between Men and Women are universal. Women all over the world complain that “He doesn’t understand”. “He doesn’t listen”. “Only time he touches me is when he wants sex”. And men all over the world complain that “She doesn’t want to have enough of sex.” (Unless the woman is around 37 years. At this magical age women want more of sex than ever before.)

2. Women like affection from men much more than sex. They want to be hugged. John learnt to hug his wife.

3. Men like to be logical. Women like to share and talk even if there is no point in their sharing and talking. Men need to have an objective. They need to see the point in doing something. They can’t share for the sake of sharing.

4. Men tend to do one thing at a time. Women do many things at a time. Men have a tunnel vision. 95% of their attention is focused on just one thing and 5% on checking of the environment. Women are just the opposite. They are continuously taking in everything that there is in the environment whether it is useful or not.

5. John narrated the incident of his wife asking him to get some milk while coming home from work. He forgets. She considerately puts it down to his thinking of work. She asks him again. Again he forgets. She takes it personally. It’s not that the milk was forgotten but that she was forgotten. Women behave in this manner.

6. Men have their own caves on which the sign states “Please do not disturb.” Men like to retreat into their own world where they feel they are in control. Women also have caves but the sign on their caves is “I need to talk”. When a man asks a woman what’s wrong and she says “Nothing” it really means “Nothing, unless you care to listen and give me an opportunity to talk.”

7. 90% of women go into therapy because they want to be listened to. They want to be asked questions. They want to feel special. Men hate to be questioned. If men want to talk they’ll talk. If they don’t want to talk they won’t. When a man is locked in his cave, the woman thinks that something is wrong with him and goes in and asks questions. This is a wrong move for the woman to make. Men hate to be interrogated.

8. When a woman touches a man she may want to be cuddled. But for a man anywhere he is touched leads to Rome and he thinks therefore that it has to lead to sex.

9. Men want to forget the problems of the day. Women want to remember. A man will say “Forget it, it’s no big deal.” For a woman she will not rest till the problem is talked about. Her response to the man, who wants to just forget about it and not make a big deal out of it, will be “How can you be so insensitive.”

10. Men should never tell a woman how she should feel. In fact if she is unhappy, the man needs to be unhappy with her for a while instead of offering advice.

11. If the man is at a loss for saying anything when the woman is feeling bad then instead of offering advice he could build her up a bit by saying “I know how much you work during the day to make the kids and myself feel happy. It must be very exhausting.” Her unconscious response would be “He understands.” The woman craves for understanding.

12. Women make noises to get attention. Men make noises to signal “Please leave me alone.”

13. To cope with stress, sometimes, women while speaking tend to speak in long sentences and then pause. Men think that the pause is a signal for saying something. Wrong. For the woman the pause is just a semi-colon. Men need to restrain themselves in giving advice.

14. When a woman is upset and a man tries to give a solution 99% of the time her response will be “Yes….but”. When she is relaxed then give the solution. After she has been given the opportunity to talk about it.

15. If a man tries to walk in a woman’s shoes, she will be more willing to understand his point of view. Men tend to expect women to agree with their point of view because they feel it is obviously the best point of view.

16. Men are efficiency oriented. Must do it the easiest and fastest way. Women on the other hand feel that taking the shortest path between 2 points is boring. Women like variation. This is especially true in the bedroom. Men go by the same formula every time while women want variation. Men like uniforms and the same uniform. Men look good in a tuxedo or a suit and that’s it. Every time the same tuxedo or suit. Women like to change their dress; sometimes thrice or even more times in a day.

17. When John’s book ‘Men are from Mars, Women from Venus’ was on the bestseller list for 6 years in a row, John realized how narrowly focused in life he had become. He only gloated about his book being no. 1 on the bestseller list. John was missing the little things of life where his wife and children were concerned. Women are able to see the little things in life and be happy.

18. The more narrow the focus of a man the more stressed he is bound to get. He can’t notice anything else other than what he is focusing on at that moment. Women deal with lots of problems at the same time and the way they cope is to talk about them.

19. Men use their brain sequentially viz. one part at a time. Where women are concerned it is usually the whole brain at once.

20. Women lower stress through talking and sharing. The collectiveness and togetherness which they share is part of their feminity. Men lower their stress by being alone. Women’s attitude is that if we can’t do anything about it then let’s talk about it and suffer together. Men’s focus is on solving the problem. And if they can’t solve the problem then they make the problem disappear by forgetting about it.

21. Men always want to be right.

22. Women, unknowingly sabotage their success. They put themselves down because they want support. Women bond by putting themselves down. For example if one is late for a particular function in the office, the woman will say what an imbecile she is by not catching the right train or missing the connection because of some stupid mistake she made and so on. And other women who are also late will do the same.

23. Or if a woman is having a problem with the computer, she will call the so called expert from the computer department and tell him that she doesn’t know anything about computers and that she is very happy that he has come to her rescue and thereby push the guy way up there. But when he suggests a solution which she tends to disagree with, she doesn’t know how to tell him because if she does it, it makes him come crashing down and he reacts by saying that she has wasted his time. In this case one needs to resort to face saving devices like ‘whatever you have suggested will I am sure help me to figure it out (even if you see no utility in the suggestion).

24. As women more and more enter into the workplace their need to being listened to and understood is not being met. The workplace is efficiency oriented. They are becoming more and more isolated. They have to raise their children alone. Unseen and unheard. And this is causing them to go more and more into depression. The man focusses on work no matter what the problems are that are being experienced at home.

25. Man is efficiency oriented. He needs to feel needed. He needs problems to be solved. If there are no job opportunities or there is no effort called for to do something then the man feels depressed.

26. When women feel nurtured they feel happy. They are happy with the small things of life. Man likes to measure himself against the goal he has set for himself. Men behave like squirrels. They focus on one thing, dash towards it and once they reach there then they turn their focus on another thing and make a dash there and so on and so forth.

27. Men see the news on TV especially after coming home, because the problems they hear about and see make their problems seem that much smaller.

28. John’s soul sings when he teaches. Need to find one’s path and go along it. The fact that one feels fear is because it is one’s path. If it was not one’s path then one would not be so worried about whether one made an impact or not.

29. The truth is I deserve to be the way I am. I need not be bothered to be perfect in order to be loved. Once one lives in an atmosphere of perfect trust the more authentic one becomes, and the more authentic one becomes the more irresistible one becomes. The closer we are to who we truly are the more people will love us. There will always be people who do not love us.

30. Forgiveness is the key. If someone hurts then one needn’t hurt back. As Gandhi said, An eye for an eye will make the whole world blind.

31. Women give more. Men want to get more.

32. Women want flowers to be purchased by men. And they should be cut- flowers. So that the flowers die and therefore the men have to go out and purchase them again and again. They do not want the romance to go out of the relationship. Men on the other hand feel that if they have done it once there is no necessity to do it again and again. But women want things and messages to be repeated again and again.

33. Women sometimes give hints viz. On Sunday they will mention that they are getting their hair cut on Thursday. This is to be taken as a warning signal. The hair cut must be noticed. If a woman has to ask how she looks after she has had a hair cut then there is no value placed on the man’s comment. It has to be noticed without being asked. Women put in much more effort in looking good. Men put in more effort in their work.

34. Man wants to be appreciated. Woman wants to be listened to and noticed. Men stress more on what they do while women stress more on their being.

35. Men think that by being flexible they are Mr. Agreeable and that is appreciated by women. Really speaking women want men to take charge and suggest something which they agree on. Mr. Agreeable is boring. The ideal metaphor is to have a man with a plan and a woman with a smile.

36. Sometimes the woman feels that she does everything according to what the man wants. At this point it is necessary for the woman to say “I’ll do it this time your way but next time we’ll do what I want.”

37. Women are always keeping score in a relationship viz. When a woman does anything for a man she always gives herself a point. Men keep score in business. Men need to keep score in a relationship too. They need to do something for the woman so that they too score points from the woman’s point of view.

38. At work the man’s perspective is not to unnecessarily interfere. A man feels that if he doesn’t ask then he is giving total freedom to the woman. But a woman who is a subordinate wants to be asked about her work because silence is taken to mean ‘non-involvement’.

39. Women like the small stuff. Chit-Chat. Occasionally ask some personal questions. The magic words are ‘What else?’

40. To free a man a woman needs to say ‘You don’t need to say or do anything and you don’t need to feel bad.’

41. Listening creates healing.

42. Women by nature give. But when they find that they are not getting anything in return they need to give to themselves. Men have no problem in giving to themselves. Men don’t give enough to others.

43. Men prefer women managers while they learn the job. After learning the job they prefer a male manager.

44. Men sprint faster. Women win the long distance.

45. In men testosterone lowers stress. In women oxytocin lowers stress. Affection, considerateness, being noticed is what produces the oxytocin in women. Therefore men need to learn new skills to produce oxytocin in women. Foreplay is more important for a woman than a man. A woman needs 20-30 minutes of stimulation. A man needs just 2-3 minutes.

46. Women want sensitive men but the danger is that if men become too sensitive then women don’t like it. They want men to be considerate but not to be too sensitive just like them.

47. Don’t try to fix or change your partner.

48. When husband and wife are business partners then there needs to be clear rules. There needs to be a clear demarcated time when no business is talked about.

49. Duty is important but being authentic is more important.

50. Women can be compared metaphorically to the moon. When the moon is full, women crave for sex. When it is half-full, a woman can have it not have it, it does not matter, and when it is a new moon she couldn’t care less.

51. There are different types of sex viz. Healthy, home cooked sex, Ferrari, junk food sex, and Gourmet sex. Once a month one could have Gourmet sex which means bringing in the romance by going out for a dinner and coming home to an atmosphere which slowly climaxes. Whenever he wants sex, and it is a quickie then give it to him. Provided on other occasions there is good, regular homemade sex. In order to arrive at a meaningful understanding one could have 3 candles signifying the 3 types of sex. Either partner finds it very difficult to know the real mood of the other. Depending on which candle is lit and by whom one can behave accordingly. The candle becomes the sign of the mood.

PASAL LELAKI LAGI???HEHEHE

Men Are Hard To Please. The problems with GUYS:

If u TREAT him nicely, he says u are IN LOVE with him; If u Don't, he says u are PROUD.
If u DRESS Nicely, he says u are trying to LURE him; If u Don't, he says u are from KAMPUNG.
If u ARGUE with him, he says u are STUBBORN; If u keep QUIET, he says u have no BRAINS.
If u are SMARTER than him, he'll lose FACE; If he's Smarter than u, he is GREAT.
If u don't Love him, he tries to POSSESS u; If u Love him, he will try to LEAVE u.(ye ke???)
If u don't make love with him., he says u don't Love him; If u do!! he says u are CHEAP.
If u tell him your PROBLEM, he says u are TROUBLESOME; If u don't, he says that u don't TRUST him.
If u SCOLD him, u are like a NANNY to him; If he SCOLDS u, it is because he CARES for u.
If u BREAK your PROMISE, u Cannot be TRUSTED; If he BREAKS his, he is FORCED to do so.
If u SMOKE, u are BAD girl; If he SMOKES, he is GENTLEMENT.
If u do WELL in your exams, he says it's LUCK; If he does WELL, it's BRAINS.
If u HURT him, u are CRUEL; If he HURTS u, u are too SENSITIVE!!

Sama je lelaki ke pompuan ke...ingat senang ke nak paham....ati org lain2.....

TAK ADIL BETUL....

Pompuan Lawa VS Pompuan Tak Lawa....


Kalau perempuan lawa pendiam, Lelaki akan cakap: woow, ciri-ciri isteri idaman...Kalau perempuan tak lawa pendiam, Lelaki akan cakap: eh tak reti komunikasi betul...

Kalau perempuan lawa berbuat jahat, Lelaki akan kata: mesti ada krisis dalaman nih. kesian.... Kalau perempuan tak lawa berbuat jahat, Lelaki akan cakap: dah la tak lawa, perangai pulak huduh...

Kalau perempuan lawa menolong Lelaki yg diganggu, Lelaki akan cakap: heroin sejati...!Kalau perempuan tak lawa menolong Lelaki yang diganggu,Lelaki akan kata: taktik nak ngorat le tu...

Kalau perempuan lawa dapat Lelaki hensem, Lelaki akan kata: ok gak la....Kalau perempuan tak lawa dapat Lelaki hensem, Lelaki akan kata: kesian..mesti kena bomoh lelaki tuh!

Kalau perempuan lawa ditinggal kekasih, Lelaki akan kata: buta kayu betul mamat tu....Kalau perempuan tak lawa ditinggal kekasih, Lelaki akan kata:...patut pun kena reject...

Kalau perempuan lawa penyayang binatang, Lelaki akan cakap: perasaannya halus...penuh kasih sayang. Kalau perempuan tak lawa penyayang binatang, Lelaki akan cakap: sesama keluarga memang harus menyayangi...

Kalau perempuan lawa bawa BMW, Lelaki akan cakap: ntah dato' mana bela nih....Kalau perempuan tak lawa bawa BMW, Lelaki akan cakap: musti anak org kaya nih.....

Kalau perempuan lawa tak mau bergambar, Lelaki akan cakap: pasti takut kalau2 gambarnya tersebar. Kalau perempuan tak lawa tak mau bergambar, Lelaki akan kata: sedar pun diri...

Kalau perempuan lawa menuang air ke gelas lelaki, Lelaki akan cakap: caring sungguh....Kalau perempuan tak lawa menuang air ke gelas lelaki, Lelaki akan cakap: nak tunjuk caring le tu....

Kalau perempuan lawa bersedih hati, Lelaki akan cakap: dont worry, i will make u happy forever. Kalau perempuan tak lawa bersedih hati, Lelaki akan kata: sikit2 nak nangis!! mengada2...

Kalau perempuan lawa masak, Lelaki akan kata: dah la lawa, pandai masak pulak tu...Kalau perempuan tak lawa masak, Lelaki akan cakap: ntah sedap ke tak????

Kalau perempuan lawa main2 miss call, Lelaki akan kata: takpe...Kalau perempuan tak lawa main2 miss call, Lelaki akan cakap: ko ni takde keja lain ke... sibuk ni tau..

Kalau perempuan lawa hantar2 email, Lelaki akan kata: sukenya....Kalau perempuan tak lawa hantar2 email, Lelaki akan cakap: balik2 email dia.boring...!

SEDIKIT PERINGATAN...

Renung-renungkan dan selamat beramal.....hehe

Jangan sengaja lewatkan solat. Perbuatan ini Allah tidak suka.Kalau tertidur lain cerita.

Jangan masuk ke bilik air tanpa memakai alas kaki (selipar). Takut kalau-kalau terbawa keluar najis, mengotori seluruh rumah kita.

Jangan makan dan minum dalam bekas yang pecah atau sumbing. Makruh kerana ia membahayakan.

Jangan biarkan pinggan mangkuk yang telah digunakan tidak berbasuh. Makruh dan mewarisi kepapaan.

Jangan tidur selepas solat Subuh, nanti rezeki mahal (kerana berpagi-pagi itu membuka pintu berkat).

Jangan makan tanpa membaca BISMILLAH dan doa makan. Nanti rezeki kita dikongsi syaitan.

Jangan keluar rumah tanpa niat untuk membuat kebaikan. Takut-takut kita mati dalam perjalanan.

Jangan pakai sepatu atau selipar yang berlainan pasangan. Makruh dan mewarisi kepapaan.

Jangan biarkan mata liar di perjalanan. Nanti hati kita gelap diselaputi dosa.

Jangan menangguh taubat bila berbuat dosa kerana mati boleh datang bila-bila masa.

Jangan ego untuk meminta maaf pada ibu bapa dan sesama manusia kalau memang kita bersalah.

Jangan mengumpat sesama rakan taulan. Nanti rosak persahabatan kita, hilang bahagia.

Jangan lupa bergantung kepada ALLAH dalam setiap kerja kita. Nanti kita sombong apabila berjaya. Kalau gagal kecewa pula.

Jangan bakhil untuk bersedekah. Sedekah itu memanjangkan umur dan memurahkan rezeki kita.

Jangan banyak ketawa. Nanti mati jiwa.

Jangan biasakan berbohong, kerana ia adalah ciri-ciri munafik dan menghilangkan kasih orang kepada kita.

Jangan suka menganiaya manusia atau haiwan. Doa makhluk yang teraniaya cepat dimakbulkan ALLAH.

Jangan terlalu susah hati dengan urusan dunia. Akhirat itu lebih utama dan hidup di sana lebih lama dan kekal selamanya.

Jangan mempertikaikan kenapa ISLAM itu berkata JANGAN. Sebab semuanya untuk keselamatan kita. ALLAH lebih tahu apa yang terbaik untuk hamba ciptaanNya.

MUHASABAH DIRI....

KENAPA AKU DIUJI?"Apakah manusia itu mengira bahawa mereka dibiarkan saja mengatakan;"Kami telah beriman," sedangkan mereka tidak diuji? Dan sesungguhnya kami telah menguji org2 yg sebelum mereka, maka sesungguhnya Allah mengetahui org2 yg benar dan sesungguhnya Dia mengetahui org2 yg dusta."-Surah Al-Ankabut ayat 2-3

KENAPA AKU TAK DAPAT APA YG AKU IDAM-IDAMKAN?"Boleh jadi kamu membenci sesuatu padahal ia amat baik bagimu, dan boleh jadi pula kamu menyukai sesuatu, padahal ia amat buruk bagimu, Allah mengetahui sedang kamu tidak mengetahui."-Surah Al-Baqarah ayat 216

KENAPA UJIAN SEBERAT INI?"Allah tidak membebani seseorang itu melainkan sesuai dengan kesanggupannya."-Surah Al-Baqarah ayat 286

RASA FRUST?"Jgnlah kamu bersikap lemah, dan jgnlah pula kamu bersedih hati, padahal kamulah org2 yg paling tinggi darjatnya, jika kamu org2 yg beriman."- Surah Al-Imran ayat 139

BAGAIMANA HARUS AKU MENGHADAPINYA?"Wahai orang-orang yang beriman! Bersabarlah kamu (menghadapi segala kesukaran dalam mengerjakan perkara-perkara yang berkebajikan), dan kuatkanlah kesabaran kamu lebih daripada kesabaran musuh, di medan perjuangan), dan bersedialah (dengan kekuatan pertahanan di daerah- daerah sempadan) serta bertaqwalah kamu kepada Allah supaya, kamu berjaya (mencapai kemenangan)."-Surah Al-Imran ayat 200

"Dan mintalah pertolongan (kepada Allah) dengan jalan sabar dan mengerjakan sembahyang; dan sesungguhnya sembahyang itu amatlah berat kecuali kepada orang-orang yang khusyuk"-Surah Al-Baqarah ayat 45

APA YANG AKU DAPAT DRPD SEMUA INI?"Sesungguhnya Allah telah membeli dr org2 mu'min, diri, harta mereka dengan memberikan syurga utk mereka... ..-Surah At-Taubah ayat 111

KEPADA SIAPA AKU BERHARAP?"Cukuplah Allah bagiku, tidak ada Tuhan selain drNya. Hanya kepadaNya aku bertawakkal."-Surah At-Taubah ayat 129

AKU TAK DAPAT TAHAN!!!"... ..dan jgnlah kamu berputus asa dr rahmat Allah. Sesungguhnya tiada berputus asa dr rahmat Allah melainkan kaum yg kafir."-Surah Yusuf ayat 12

Wallahua'lam.....

WHO ARE YOU???

Siapakah orang yang sibuk?Orang yang sibuk adalah orang yang tidak mengambil berat akan waktu solatnya seolah-olah ia mempunyai kerajaan seperti kerajaan NabiSulaiman a.s

Siapakah orang yang manis senyumanya?Orang yang mempunyai senyuman yang manis adalah orang yang ditimpa musibah lalu dia kata "Inna lillahi wainna illaihi rajiuun." Lalu sambilberkata,"Ya Rabbi Aku redha dengan ketentuanMu ini", sambil mengukir senyuman.

Siapakah orang yang kaya?Orang yang kaya adalah orang yang bersyukur dengan apa yang ada dan tidak lupa akan kenikmatan dunia yang sementara ini.

Siapakah orang yang miskin?Orang yang miskin adalah orang tidak puas dengan nikmat yang ada sentiasa menumpuk-numpukkan harta.

Siapakah orang yang rugi?Orang yang rugi adalah orang yang sudah sampai usia pertengahan namun masih berat untuk melakukan ibadat dan amal-amal kebaikan.

Siapakah orang yang paling cantik?Orang yang paling cantik adalah orang yang mempunyai akhlak yang baik.

Siapakah orang yang mempunyai rumah yang paling luas?Orang yang mempunyai rumah yang paling luas adalah orang yang mati membawa amal-amal kebaikan di mana kuburnya akan di perluaskan saujana mata memandang.

Siapakah orang yang mempunyai rumah yang sempit lagi dihimpit?Orang yang mempunyai rumah yang sempit adalah orang yang mati tidak membawa amal-amal kebaikkan lalu kuburnya menghimpitnya.

Siapakah orang yang mempunyai akal?Orang yang mempunyai akal adalah orang-orang yang menghuni syurga kelak kerana telah mengunakan akal sewaktu di dunia untuk menghindari siksa neraka.

Siapakah org yg KEDEKUT ?Orang yg kedekut ialah org yg membiar ilmu begitu sahaja, malah dia tidak akan menyampaikan pula pada org lain.

LELAKI...LELAKI...CEMANER???

Yang ni i ada post kan kat blog lagi satu tu....khas untuk warga 4-12-4....dan nampaknya ramai gak yg bersetuju....

TOP REASONS WHY LADIES TODAY ARE STILL SINGLE!!

1. The nice men are ugly.

2. The handsome men are not nice.

3. The handsome and nice men are gay.

4. The handsome, nice and heterosexual men are married.

5. The men who are not so handsome, but are nice men, have no money.

6. The men who are not so handsome, but are nice men with money think we are only after their money.

7. The handsome men without money are after our money.

8. The handsome men, who are not so nice and somewhat heterosexual, don't think we are beautiful enough.

9. The men who think we are beautiful, that are heterosexual, somewhat nice and have money, are cowards.

10. The men who are somewhat handsome, somewhat nice and have some money and thank God are heterosexual, are shy and NEVER MAKE THE FIRST MOVE!!!!

11. The men who never make the first move, automatically lose interest in us when we take the initiative.

NOW, WHO THE HELL UNDERSTANDS MEN?

"Men are like a fine wine.
They all start out like grapes, and
it's our job to stomp on them and keep
them in the dark until they mature into
something you'd like to have dinner with."

HATI SEORANG WANITA...HAHAHA

Yang ni mesti wanita seMalaysia tak pun wanita sedunia sokong 100% punya....

1. Bila sorang wanita mengatakan dia sedang bersedih,tetapi dia tidak menitiskan airmata,itu bermakna dia sedang menangis di dalam hatinya.

2. Bila dia tidak menghiraukan kamu selepas kamu menyakiti hatinya,lebih baik kamu beri dia masa untuk menenangkan hatinya semula sebelum kamu menegur dengan ucapan maaf.

3. Wanita sukar nak cari benda yang dia benci tentang orang yang paling dia sayang (sebab itu ramai wanita yang patah hati bila hubungan itu putus di tengah jalan).

4. Sekiranya sorang wanita jatuh cinta dengan sorang lelaki, lelaki itu akan sentiasa ada di fikirannya walaupun ketika dia sedang keluar dengan lelaki lain (hahaha...jahat tak???)

5. Bila lelaki yang dia suka dan cinta merenung tajam ke dalam matanya,dia akan cair seperti coklat!!

6. Wanita memang sukakan pujian tetapi selalu tidak tau macam mana nak menerima pujian.

7. Jika kamu tidak suka dengan gadis yang sukakan kamu separuh mati,tolak cintanya dengan lembut,jangan berkasar sebab ada satu
semangat dalam diri wanita yang kamu tak akan tahu bila dia dah buat keputusan,dia akan lakukan apa saja.

8. Sekiranya sorang gadis mula menjauhkan diri darimu selepas kamu tolak cintanya,biarkan dia untuk seketika.Sekiranya kamu masih ingin menganggap dia sorang kawan,cubalah tegur dia perlahan-lahan.

9. Wanita suka meluahkan apa yang mereka rasa.Muzik,puisi,lukisan dan tulisan adalah cara termudah mereka meluahkan isi hati mereka.

10. Jangan sesekali beritahu perempuan yang mereka ni lansung tak berguna.

11. Bersikap terlalu serius boleh mematikan mood wanita.

12. Bila pertama kali lelaki yang dicintainya dalam diam memberikan respon positif,misalnya menghubunginya melalui telefon,si gadis akan bersikap acuh tak acuh seolah-olah tidak berminat,tetapi sebaik saja ganggang diletakkan,dia akan menjerit kesukaan dan tak sampai sepuluh minit,semua rakan-rakannya akan tahu berita tersebut.

13. Sekuntum senyuman memberi seribu erti bagi wanita.Jadi jangan senyum sebarangan.

14. Jika kamu menyukai sorang wanita,cubalah mulakan dengan persahabatan.Kemudian biarkan dia mengenalimu dengan lebih mendalam.

15. Jika sorang wanita memberi seribu satu alasan setiap kali kamu ajak keluar,tinggalkan dia sebab dia memang tak berminat denganmu.

16. Tetapi jika dalam masa yang sama dia menghubungimu atau menunggu panggilan darimu,teruskan usahamu untuk memikatnya.

17. Jangan sesekali mengagak apa yang dirasakannya.Tanya dia sendiri!!

18. Selepas sorang gadis jatuh cinta,dia akan sering tertanya-tanya kenapalah aku tak jumpa lelaki ini lebih awal.

19. Kalau kamu masih tercari-cari cara yang paling romantik untuk memikat hati sorang gadis,cubalah rajin-rajinkan tangan menyelak buku-buku cinta.

20. Bila setiap kali gambar kelas keluar, benda pertama yang dicari oleh wanita ialah siapa yang berdiri di sebelah buah hatinya,kemudian barulah dirinya sendiri.

21. Bekas teman lelaki akan sentiasa ada di fikirannya tetapi lelaki yang dicintainya sekarang akan berada di tempat teristimewa iaitu di hatinya!!

22. Satu ucapan 'Hi' sahaja sudah cukup menceriakan harinya.

23. Teman baiknya saja yang tahu apa yang sedang dia rasa dan lalui.

24. Wanita paling benci lelaki yang berbaik-baik dengan mereka semata-mata nak tackle kawan mereka yang paling cantik.

25. Cinta bermaksud kesetiaan, ambil berat, jujur dan kebahagiaan tanpa sebarang kompromi.

26. Semua wanita mahukan sorang lelaki yang cintakan mereka sepenuh hati.

27. Senjata wanita adalah airmata!!

28. Wanita suka jika sesekali orang yang disayanginya mengadakan surprise buatnya (hadiah,bunga atau sekadar kad ucapan romantis).Mereka akan rasa terharu dan merasakan bahawa dirinya dicintai setulus hati.Dengan ini dia tak akan ragu-ragu terhadapmu.

29. Wanita mudah jatuh hati pada lelaki yang ambil berat tentang mereka dan baik terhadapnya.So,kalau nak memikat wanita
pandai-pandailah...

30. Sebenarnya mudah mengambil hati wanita kerana apa yang dia mahu hanyalah perasaan dicintai dan disayangi sepenuh jiwa

LAGI BERMAIN-MAIN...

May
Stubborn and hard-hearted. Strong-willed and highly motivated. Sharp thoughts. Easily angered. Attracts others and loves attention. Deep feelings. Beautiful physically and mentally. Firm Standpoint. Needs no motivation. Shy towards opposite sex. Easily consoled. Systematic (left brain). Loves to dream. Strong clairvoyance. Understanding. Sickness usually in the ear and neck. Good imagination. Good physical. Weak breathing. Loves literature and the arts. Loves traveling. Dislike being at home. Restless. Not having many children. Hardworking. High-spirited.

Is your birthday day 9 of the month?
Your Life - You often have problem in promoting yourself, just because you don't know how to express your trueself. On the other hand, you don't really care whatthey think. This is why people misunderstand you; until they really get a chance to learn about your pleasant personality. Opposite sex find you mysterious and worth searching. Your wit is remarkable but sometimes you are too fast to follow.

Your Love - You won't reveal your feeling even after dreaming about the same guy over and over. Your first love lasts forever. You are responsible to the feeling of your lover. The chance to betray your lover is none.You have luck with children.

Jan
Pretty/handsome. Loves to dress up. Easily bored. Fussy. Seldom shows emotions. Takes time to recover when hurt. Sensitive. Down-to-Earth. Stubborn.

Is your birthday day 1 of the month?
Your Life - You are very curious and dedicative. When you are interested in something;everything else has to wait.This is your quality; But if you learn to be;more patient and complete what you have started; you will be successful in life

Your Love - You believe in love at first sight. You won't wait to learn more about the person. Vise versa, people who fail to impress you; will hardly get a chance; to be your friend. Your emotion is on the extreme.You can only love or hate, nothing in between and this often shows in your statement. Try not to end a relationship in a quarrel.