AKSI AYAH MENIDURKAN ANAK...

Inilah my hubby yang berusaha menidurkan permata hati kesayangannya...yang selalunya berakhir dengan ayahnya tidur bersama...huhuhu...comei tak???love u both....

KENANGAN SAAT AKHIR KEHAMILAN...

Terasa rindu plak time2 ni..huhuhu...teringat masa zaman jalan pun mcm penguin...nak bgn pun mintak tlg hubby...dan tetiba perut nguit2 kene tendang...skang ni bila solat pun rasa lain...sbb dulu tangan boleh landing atas perut....hehe...

BABYSITTER SEPENUH MASA....

Hmmm...memula nak tulis surirumah sepenuh masa...tapi bila fikir balik mana ada buat kerja rumah pun...jaga Aaisyah je....semua mak(my mother in law) yang buat...tu pun rasa stress jugak...apala...

Kalau Aaisyah ikut schedule je,ok lagi...tapi bila dia dah lari dari schedule...pening kepala....especially bila dia tak sihat...bertambah lagi stress nya...bila mata dia nak tido tapi dia tahan jugak taknak tidur..merengek je....rasa nak marah je kat dia....siap membebel lagi kat dia walaupun dia tak faham lagi..."tidur je la..buat pe tahan tahan mata tu...skang la time leh tido banyak...kang dah beso tokleh nak tido banyak"...hehehe...kecik kecik dah kene bebel...tapi dia takder la selalu pun meragam...Aaisyah kan budak baik...

Tapi skang ni dah best skit...dia dah bersuara konon mcm nak bercakap la....bunyi yang dia selalu buat...."awuuuuu"..."agagaga"...dengan mimik muka dia tu...dengan mulut comel dia termuncung2 tu...huhuhu....geram betul...dia pun dah boleh cam orang dah...nanti dia tenung je pastu keluarla bunyi bunyi dia tu.....

Apa je di babysit kan pun....bagi susu...tukar lampin...pakaikan baju, krim dan minyak, tidurkan...itu je la di ulang tiap2 hari selama dekat 2 bulan ni....cuma kerjanya takder masa stop...24 jam...tambahan mcm Aaisyah ni...waktu menyusu dia 2 jam sekali tak kira siang atau malam...nanti tak dapat dah nak full time bila dah start keje...jumpa Aaisyah pun mesti malam je...hmmm....sian betul...mcm mana la org tu jaga Aaisyah nanti...harap2nya org tu sangat bertanggungjawabla menjaga anak org lain ni...

Skang ni baru tau perasaan surirumah sepenuh masa...sibuk buat keje kat dalam rumah...siapa cakap tak stress...stress tau...takder orang nak share bercerita atau bercakap...so mengharapkan bila hubby pulang share la something so leh la sang isteri komen ke bg pendapat ke...gelakkan sama2 ke....ni tak...bila balik buat hal sendiri je...terkebil2 si isteri tgk laki dia buat tak tau je...stress keje opis lain...at least boleh bergosip ngan rakan sekerja yg lain...stress sorang2 kat umah???oleh itu sang suami yg mempunyai isteri bekerjaya surirumah...tolonglah faham ye...

My hubby ni dah buat follow up ke ngan nursery tu...kang takder tempat plak la nak anto Aaisyah bila dah start keje nanti...ha lagi satu...abg ada janji something kat adik lepas adik bersalin...jgn lupa plak janji tu ye....

SELSEMA...SIKSANYA DIA...

Siannya Aaisyah...dah berapa hari dah selsema...malam tadi bawak p klinik...dapat la ubat...sian bila tgk dia nak tido tapi hidung tersumbat...tak lena dia tido...abah n my hubby ada belikan penyedut hingus...abah siap belikan vicks lagi...sedap je bau strawberry...itula yg i gunakan utk membantu dia bernafas...my hubby lagi lah bapa mithali...dia sedut hingus kat hidung Aaisyah guna mulut lagi...tak tau la saper jangkit saper....sbb bila bgn tido dua dua i and Aaisyah dah selsema....sbb cuaca ke???ntahla....

Mcm mcm cara dah dibuat utk tidurkan dia dgn selesa..buat masa ni tinggikan bantal mmg agak berkesan...nampak mcm dia tido lama je..siap kekadang termiss waktu minum susu dia sbb asyik sgt tido....dah la baby i ni manja...tido tu nak kene peluk dulu...pas tu baru boleh letak...tu pun kene tunggu dia lena betul2...yg paling i takut waktu dia selsema ni....kalau dia menangis sampai keluo air mata...nanti hidung dia mesti sumbat....

Ya Allah, Aaisyah terlalu kecil dan lemah untuk menanggung sebarang kesakitan...Engkau sembuhkanlah dia...Engkau jauhkanlah dia dari sebarang penyakit....Aamiinn....usaha telah dilakukan sekarang perlu berdoa dan bertawakkal je...seperti firman Allah dalam surah Asy-syuara ayat 80...."dan apabila aku sakit, Dialah yang menyembuhkan aku"....

SALAM IDULADHA & ATOKs

Selamat Iduladha...sempena 10 Zulhijjah 1432 hijrah...nampaknya Apak dan Mak bergelar Haji dan Hajjah pada tahun ini...dan tahun ni menyambut Hari Raya Haji di Shah Alam....maklumla tgh berpantang...dan raya kali ni jugak disambut dengan penambahan seorang lagi ahli keluarga...

Sian kat adik2 i yang sambut raya kat kampung tanpa Mak dan Apak...tapi takper...raya haji je...seperti kebiasaannya disambut tak berapa meriah kat kg sana...tapi azian dengan rajinnya masak rendang....kat Shah Alam seperti biasa gak Abah n my hubby sibuk melaksanakan amanah ibadah korban kat masjid....dan seperti biasa mak menyediakan nasi impit,rendang, kuah kacang dan kuah lodeh...

Istimewanya anak i ni dia ada 4 orang atok...tok ijat, tok mizi, tok kiah dan tok halim...mak i dipanggil opah dan tak sure plak apa panggilan utk mak my hubby, mak ena....opah gak kot...so ada 2 opah la kan...semalam utk 1st time nyer, Aaisyah dibawa berjumpa dengan tok halim nya...tapi tok halim batuk..so tak dapatla pegang Aaisyah lama...tok halim juga bacakan doa sempena memberi nama...doa tu dari surah ali imran...kitorang tak tau plak ada kene baca doa masa bagi nama..so termiss la part tu nampaknya....so tok halim la yg bacakan....

Memula dulu plan nak buat Aqiqah sekali dengan raya haji ni..tapi sbb semua org bz...so kene plan lain kali nampaknya...kene tgk balik schedule masing2...sempat la tok ijat n opah ani balik dari makkah....insyaallah....

SUNTIKAN GENAP SEBULAN....

Hari ni genaplah 30 hari umur Aaisyah....apa baby akan dapat bila genap sebulan????kesakitan...kene dapatkan injection Hepatitis B...masa 1st day lahir dah kene injection Hep B ngan Vitamin K, then 2nd day kene injection BCG pastu ni kira injection 4 utk baby....sian betul tgk dia kene inject...betul2 dia nangis sampai keluo air mata...selama ni kalau dia nangis nak susu ke nak tido ke takder la sampai keluo air mata...sedih je i tgk....yg lain normal je...berat dia dari 3.4kg dah naik ke 4kg...patutla bila dukung tu rasa berat je...mmg berat dia dah bertambah...terjumpa jugak dengan akak yg lahirkan anak sama hari ngan Aaisyah...tapi dia ada masalah skit...berat baby tak naik pulak...dahla masa lahir tu baby tak cukup gula dalam darah...so akak tu kene amik air kencing baby dia utk di check...

Apa lagi i jumpa kat hospital tu????hahaha...Norkhiriah tgh berlakon ngan Lisdawati...Si Ceplos pun i jumpa.....kalau tgk dekat papan tu dia tulis tajuk citernyer Bismillahirrahmanirrahim...ntahla tak sure plak...

Appointment ngan doktor tu petang...so pagi tu lepak kat umah kitorang kat Setapak yg dah sebulan tak tgk....so ngemas skit..then, lepak2 je ngan Aaisyah....my hubby p keje...sebelum balik kg ari tuh my hubby ada basuh baju...so i pun lipat2 la n kemas2 kan baju.....rindu betul i kat umah tu...maklumla umah seniri kan....

Nanti ada lagi satu injection Hep B kene dapatkan masa umur 6 bulan...then, masa Aaisyah umur 2,3 dan 4 bulan pun ada injection jugak...apa tah nama dia....banyak betul...waalupun kesian kat baby tapi terpaksa jugak amik injection tu....untuk kesihatan baby di masa akan datang....my hubby pun mlm tu bermandikan muak Aaisyah...maybe sbb bdn dia tak sedap sbb injection tu...nasib baik tak demam....kalau demam mesti lagi susah nak jaga kan???....hmmm..

BUKAN RUAM LAMPIN TAPI....

Hmmm...pagi2 lagi dah keluo on Aaisyah 20th day...sbb apa???hmmm ruam Aaisyah makin banyak la plak...punya la risaukan ruam lampin tapi rupanya baby i ni kes lain plak...ruam kat muka...memula nampak kat dahi...ingatkan dua tiga hari boleh hilang...rupanya dah merebak satu muka dah...sian dia...terpaksa ajak my hubby p klinik....balik dari klinik my hubby pun rasa dah malas nak pegi keje..so dia amik la cuti...

Lawa gak doctor yg rawat my baby tadi...of course la punca tak dapat dikenal pasti...samada ruam sbb susu atau panas atau alergic dengan sabun mandi...disebabkan itu, i stop la makan jamu yang mak i beli dan Aaisyah pun mandi tak bersabun la...then, i kene beli satu cream tu..nama dia elomet....nampaknya sangat berkesan...dalam satu hari pun dah boleh nampak perubahan....

So, lepas ni i tau la yg baby i ni rupanya ada kes sama dengan i...kulit sensitif....terpaksa la jaga dengan lebih teliti lagi pas ni...my mom in law pun senang je mandikan baby sbb dah takyah pakai sabun...huhu

Terasa sungguh special berpantang kat Shah Alam...siap makanan dihantar ke bilik lagi...terasa bersalah pun ada...malu pun ada...serba salah pulak rasanya...thanks mak sebab jaga menantumu ini dengan sangat baik....thanks jugak to all my hubby's family...takkan dapat dilupakan layanan 1st class ni...tak tau la mcm mana nak membalas jasa diorang....hmm....

10.10.11 - UNFORGETTABLE ANNIVERSARY

Hari ni hari apa???huhu....rasa mcm baru je kawin (walaupun dah ada anak)....rasa mcm tak sampai setahun kawin...kenyataannya...today is my 2nd anniversary...anniversary tahun ni mmg lebih bermakna...sbb apa???of course la dengan kelahiran puteri kesanyangan kami...memeriahkan lagi kehidupan rumahtangga kitorang...hari ini hari ke 13 kelahiran Aaisyah.....

Satu lagi membuatkan hari ini hari yg amat bermakna...Apak dan Mak alhamdulillah telah berangkat ke Tanah Suci Makkatul Mukarramah untuk menunaikan haji...mereka akan berziarah ke Madinatul Munawwarah dulu selama 8 hari sebelum ke Makkah....sehari sebelum bertolak diorang tidur di rumah adik mak, mak njang di Kuarters Kastam Kelana Jaya....boleh jalan kaki je ke Tabung Haji tu....

Setelah 8 tahun i bekerja dan menyimpan gaji di tabung haji untuk Apak n Mak ke Makkah (walaupun simpanan tu dah sukup sebelum ni tapi terpaksa juga tunggu panggilan dari Tabung Haji), pada tahun ini, Allah telah memperkenankan doa dan impian yg telah di tanam sejak zaman belajar lagi....impian utama setelah bekerja ialah menghantar diorang ke Makkah....walaupun itu tak dapat membalas jasa mereka membesar dan mendidik selama ni...at least dapat menunaikan satu impian pun cukuplah....i tau yg jauh disudut hati diorang teringin sangat nak pergi menunaikan haji....walaupun apak selalu je cakap dia tak nak pegi....dan teringat pula kata2 mak masa dia bersembang dengan kawan2 dia...dia tak pernah terfikir pun dapat pergi sbb dia tak bekerja....tapi kawan mak cakap...Allah bagi rezeki tu dengan cara lain....ada sekali tu disebabkan apak mmg mcm tak nak pergi...mak suruh i ambil je duit yg i simpan untuk dia tu buat bayar rumah yg i beli...tapi i kata...biar je la dulu duit tu...mana tau tetiba nak pergi plak....akhirnya pada tahun ini diorang telah menjadi salah seorang dari Dhuyufurrahman.....semoga diorang mendapat haji yang mabrur....

Dan disebabkan itu...walaupun i masih dalam pantang dan dilarang oleh dioraang...i gagahkan juga menghantar Apak dan Mak ke Kompleks Tabung Haji Kelana Jaya....thanks to my hubby yg tolong packingkan barangan untuk Apak n Mak....jasamu amat adik hargai..dan hari ini juga bermulanya hari i berpantang di Shah Alam rumah my parent in law....huhu

BERCUKUR,TALI PUSAT, LAWATAN MISI & KENDURI

Selepas cabaran & dugaan pada hari kelima kelahiran Aaisyah....semua berjalan seperti biasa...on the 7th day, utk mengikut sunnah, my hubby telah berjaya mencukur rambut Aaisyah yg lebat tu...sampai tanggal2 baju la ayahnya letih mencukur...maklumla...kulit baby kan lembut lagi...bermulalah hari botak Aaisyah sementara nak menunggu rambut baru...

Then, bila opahnya nak mandikan....tetibe jatuh la tali pusatnya...settle lagi satu...kalau tak tu takut je nak mandikan n pakaikan baju...sbb tali pusat tu ada kat stuh...so lepas ni Aaisyah pun takde la meragam tak selesa pasal tali pusat tu...apak kata sementara nak tunggu tali pusat tu kering dan tanggal...baby akan rasa perit...maybe sebabtu kekadang Aaisyah ada meragam skit....

Esoknya, hari ke lapan...my hubby dah balik semula ke KL untuk bekerja...n pada hari yg sama, misi atau nurse dari Klinik Selisik datang melawat ke rumah..so dia check Aaisyah yg masa tu ada masalah mata bertahi...dia advice basuh dgn air suam...tapi org tua2 kata...titikkan air susu kat mata dia...i ikut la advice org tua2 tu...misi tu check juga tpt operate kat perut i tu...so semuanya ok....dia kata akan dtg lagi pada hari ke 10 utk timbang berat baby....

On the 10th day, misi lain dari klinik yg sama datang....so berat Aaisyah ok je...masa lahir 3.31kg...skang dah naik ke 3.4kg....misi tu kater selalunya berat baby turun pada hari ke 10 sbb dia byk berak utk cuci apa yg dia makan masa dalam perut...tapi ada juga la baby yg naik beratnya...macam Aaisyah...seperti biasa i pn dia check la jugak kat tpt operate tu...semuanya ok....

And pada hari tu jugak my hubby akan pulang ke kg...sbb pada malamnya akan diadakan kenduri sempena pemergian my Apak dan Mak ke Mekah....my father n mother in law pn datang pada mlm tu.....bagi tetamu yg dtg dan pernah menunaikan haji dan umrah...diorang bagi mcm2 pesanan pada apak dan mak untuk bekalan ke sana nanti....

Seperti biasa juga...Aaisyah pn menjadi tumpuan la kan..maklumla baru lahir..lagipun kebanyakan org kampung n sedara mara tak tau pun yg i mengandung...tau tau je dah keluo....hehehe...sunnah2 yg dah disettlekan..azan & iqamat dah...tahnik pada hari lahir dah...bercukur dah...tinggal nak sedekah emas or perak ikut berat rambut, berkhatan dan aqiqah yg belum.....tak plan lagi bila nak buat....

BERPANTANG...CABARAN...DUGAAN...

Actually...berpantang tu bukanlah cabarannya....i mmg dh bersedia dr segi mental pasal tu...on Aaisyah's 5th day...my nipple berdarah...so i nangis sbb x dpt nk breastfeed dia...p hospital check...n was advised not to breastfeed her beberapa hari...jd terpaksa juga bg susu formula...disebabkn luaran je yg luka...i perah susu badan n still bg kat baby...so dia tak dpt la menyusu direct dr i...i tak kisah..janji baby sihat...tp sedikit terkilan sbb x dpt nk fully breastfeed her...

Bila kat kampung...org kg pn dtgla melawat...i asyik kene bebel je sbb x ikut cara pantang yg betul...x pakai stokin...sbb i panas...jln laju2 n angkat barang...sbb i tak rasa plak sakit kat tpt operate tu...tidur mengiring...sbb takde saper inform kene tido terlentang...bertinggung...pun sbb takde saper inform yg tu tak boleh...n duduk atas simen...hehe yg tu salah i la sbb malas nk cari alas...

Then, on the same day jugak...my father dpt call tarikh kapal terbang utk haji telah ditetapkan pada 10/10/2011...dia kene ambil dokumen berkaitan pada hari isnin...iaitu esoknya....itu bermaksud....masa berpantang di kampung dah semakin singkat....lepas ni kene sambung berpantang di Shah Alam pula....

Masa pegi hospital tu...darah Aaisyah diambil utk check demam kuning...alhamdulillah...sihat wal afiat...mana tak nyer...my hubby siap suh Aaisyah mandi air daun belimbing buluh n i kene minum susu kambing lagi....

NUR AAISYAH...

Itulah nama my baby....lahir2 je org kater dia rupa ayah dia....bangga tul ayahnya...on the 1st day...mmg inform family terdekat je...so yg dtg melawat of course my father n mother in law, their 1st grandchild...also my brother ajan with my sister azian...mak n apak i nak dtg jugak tgk their 2nd grandchild ni...tp i x bg...sbb nnti i nk balik kg jugak kn...my hubby siap balik umah amik toto utk preparation temankan i mlm tu....

2nd day....whole day Aaisyah n my hubby ngan i...i try to breastfeed her....n officemate dr tmtc n menara pn ada dtg...nikleen, dila, mas, kak kiah, en.saiful, en.talib, en.sahiyar n kak rose....then, ptg tu my mother in law dtg sekali lg dgn my sister in law nazihah...doktor pn ada dtg check i n baby...alhamdulillah...semuanya ok....

3rd day...my hubby tak temankan i...i dok ngan Aaisyah je...aktivitinya adalah breastfeed n tukar lampin dia....my hubby p beli carseat utk baby...p kemas baju nk balik kg nnti...basuh baju n kemas rumah sbb nak tinggalkan umah lama kan....then bila doktor dtg check i....dia kata i dh boleh balik tengahari tu...i try call my hubby...dia tak angkat2 plak...kol 11 baru dapat....of course la dia jd kelam kabut...huhu...lepas Solat Jumaat, i checkout n balik kg utk berpantang kat sana....oh ye...sebelum check out, k.haida dtg melawat i bersama 3 org anaknya....

Mula2 nak letak nama Aaisyah je....takde Nur tu...tp bila memikirkan nama dia je kene panggil dulu kat sekolah...tambah jugakla Nur tu...huhuhu...naper double A...sbb ikut ejaan arab...ain, alif, hamzah, syin dan ta marbutah...

38 WEEKS...WHAT HAPPEN???

Terlalu bz nampaknya....sampai tak update2 semenjak week 30....semuanya lebih kurang je...baby aktif mcm biasa...bila doktor check je perut...baby sibuk je nk tendang doktor tu sekali....haha....

Semenjak week 36 pulak....kene buat check up weekly...27/9/2011 check up kat kkia...semuanya ok...i pun rasa mcm sihat je...so ingat lambat lagi nak bersalin...28/9/2011 check up kat Al Islam Specialist Hospital Kg Baru....doktor kater nak check tulang pinggul....bila dia seluk je....dia kater...ha...dah bukak dah ni 2 cm....pastu dia seluk lagi....dia kater dah 3cm....terus je menitik air mata i....mcm tak sedia je lg nak beranak....so doc kater dah kene tahan wad dah ni...i terus jd umat yg paling pendiam masa tu...berdebar rasanya...disebabkan wad penuh...i terus dihantar ke bilik bersalin...siap boleh dengar ada org sedang berjuang di bilik sebelah....

Then, ada nurse suh i tukar baju...dia buat CT scan nk check jantung anak i....normal...pastu doc pun masuk bilik i....dia seluk sekali lg....dia kater dah 4 cm...dia siap komen kater utk anak sulung kira bukaan i tu agak cepat....pastu dia kater nak pecahkan air ketuban....doc pecahkan je...terus doc kater kita kene buat procedure caesarean ni...dia terus panggil my hubby utk tgk...i dah nak nangis lagi...terus badan2 i sejuk tahap giler...doc tu siap bagi motivasi lagi...dia kater jgn sedih...ibu tak salah...tapi sbb baby dah berak dulu...so kene buat C-section segera...takut baby kat dalam lemas kalau nak tunggu openning sampai 10 cm...i mmg dah tak boleh pk dah....betapa gabranya...sekelip mata je doc tu dah prepare utk C-section procedure...i pn di hantar ke bilik operation....

Doc pakar bius terus je proceed dgn procedure bius...sbb dia tgk i menggeletar sgt...dia siap amik selimut dr bilik dia lagi utk tambah cover my upper body...lower body mmg dah tak rasa dah...kene bius...tak tau la apa doc buat dekat i...sbb ada tirai...so tak nampakla...doc siap sembang2 ngan i....tetiba dia kata...kami dah sampai rahim ni....tetiba i rasa perut i mcm digegar2...then, diikuti dengan bunyi baby nangis....doc doc tu siap kira 1....2...i pun pelik...apa bendala yg diorang kira tu...rupanya lilitan tali pusat....pastu diorang pun tunjukla baby tu kat i...tapi i tak tgk sgt pn....i mmg tak boleh kawal tahap kesejukan badan i ni...then doc proceed dgn menjahit semula tpt operate tu....semua kejap je...dlm 15 minit kot...dari waktu masuk bilik sampai i dikeluarkan balik....baby pun dah dibawa pergi utk di azan n iqamatkan by ayahnya....

11.49 am baby lahir...n i kene puasa 24 jam sampai esoknya....so baby seberat 3.31 kg..sepanjang 50 cm...ukurlilit kepala 34 cm...welcome to the new world my baby....to both docs and their assistant....tqvm...you all are very pro....

LAGU SEORANG BAPA UNTUK ANAKNYA

Selamat menghayati lagu ini..pernah dinyanyikan oleh Rhoma Irama n M.Daud Kilau..my hubby....speacial for you....huhu

ANAKKU YANG PERTAMA

Kini aku gembira
Yang ku tunggu dah tiba
Anakku lahir sudah
Hai anakku yang pertama

Sungguh cantik rupanya
Lirik wajah ibunya (tp anak i ni rupa bapaknya....huhu...)
Betapa bahagia
Hai dengan kehadirannya

Kan kujadikan raja
Di dalam rumahtangga
Kucurahkan semua
Hanya untuk mu saja

Buah hati wahai permata
Besarlah kau segera
Anakku yang pertama
Riang tiada terkira
Bila ku memandangnya
Hai anakku yang pertama

IDULFITRI DAN MERDEKA 2011 !!!

Salam Idulfitri & Selamat Hari Merdeka kepada semua... nampak tak wajah penat i...walaupun penat, tak sabar menanti kelahiran permata hati kami yang pertama...

AKTIVITI KEBELAKANGAN INI...

hmm...asyik letak updates dari babycenter je...so hari ni nak cerita la skit aktiviti kebelakangan ni...

Check up berjalan seperti biasa...hari ni pun ada check up kat KKIA...tapi kejap je...check up kat klinik annexe tu dah habis....dah kene proceed check up di hospital....so, baru kejap tadi buat appointment kat Kampung Baru Medical Centre @ Al-Islam Specialist Hospital...so ari Isnin depan 8/8/2011 jumpa doktor baru la plak...KKIA ada follow up 16/8 nanti....hmmm...makin berdebar lak rasanya....maklumla 1st experience....

Business Plan 2012 dah start plak...so semakin bz...2011 tak settle lagi dah kene pk 2012....tak tau la mcm mana...semua org sibuk ngan budget...tak habis2...adjustment 2011 dah buat...tapi virement tak buat2 lagi....sistem dah nak tutup pg esok...ish...pening2...

Persiapan utk baby dah ada skit...bulan July ari tu dah p beli barang2 kat expo kat PJ...tapi takder la beli barut...masa balik kg baru ni mak cakap kene beli gak barut tu tuk elak baby masuk angin. Masa beli ari tu tak perasan baju baby lengan panjang ada satu je...baby kene pakai byk ke baju lengan panjang????ntahla...tapi nanti dia kena bedung gak kan...takper kot...tgk la cemaner nanti....yang belum beli lagi...car seat tuk baby, ari tu dah beli breast pump set kat onebabyworld...tapi bottle warmer tak beli lagi, hmm..maybe jugak tilam & bantal utk dibawa ke mana2 especially balik kg...kelambu dia kene beli gak kot kan???maklumla kat kg byk nyamuk....cadar, sarung bantal & selimut baby pun belum beli lagi...aper lagi ek???pening gak nih...

Utk si ibu, ari tu masa balik kg, mak suh beli bengkung..tapi dia kata pakai korset pun dah ok...pastu dia suh beli apa-apa jamu...apa la plak jamu yg i nak mkn ni....pastu sbb beberapa minggu pertama tu dok kat slim, kene la plak buat upacara meminang bidan..ada la kenuri skit......bidan tu kene urut si ibu 3 hari...mcm2 kan...apa lagi nak beli???ntahla....pening lagi.....pastu bila mak n apak dah bertolak p haji insyaallah.....pindah pulak dok kat shah alam....n insyallah aqiqah buat kat shah alam...tapi tok n opah slim baby tak dapat la join...

Semalam alhamdulillah...dapat berpuasa dgn jayanya...takder la rasa lapar pun....tapi sbb mlm tadi mcm pening2...pg tadi mkn bersahur keluar balik....maybe masa berbuka semalam ada mkn benda yg berangin kot....tapi setakat sekarang ni...boleh tahan lagi utk teruskan berpose...harap2nya tahun ni dapat la pose penuh sebulan...aamiiinn....bknnye selalu dapat pose penuh ni kan???

Tu je la kot nak membebel tuk ari nih....sat gi tunggu hubby tercinta sampai....pastu kitorang nak berbuka and bertarawikh kat menara je....balik nanti nak singgah mcd sbb ada urusan nak kene jumpa boy (kawan hubby gak)....ada dokumen yg perlu di sign...

Kesimpulannya...kerja tak siap2 lagi nih...aduh pening balik....

BABYCENTRE UPDATES...30 WEEKS

You are now 30 weeks pregnant (or in your 31st week if that's how you prefer to count it).

How your baby's growing

From now on, your baby will gain weight fast. Her lungs and digestive tract are nearly mature and she's probably been able to open and shut her eyes for a while now, so she can see inside you.

Your baby's lungs and digestive tract are almost fully developed. While your baby may soon slow up growing in length (he measures about 15.7 inches / 40 centimetres from crown to toe by now), she will continue to gain weight until she's born.

This week your baby continues to open and shut her eyes. She can probably see what's going on in utero, distinguish light from dark and even track a light source. If you shine a light on your stomach, your baby may move her head to follow the light or even reach out to touch the moving glow. Some researchers think baring your stomach to light stimulates visual development. But don't expect 20/20 vision when your baby is born - newborns can see a distance of only about 8 to 12 inches / 20 to 30 centimetres. (Children with normal vision don't reach 20/20 vision until about age 7 to 9.) To complete the picture, your baby now has eyebrows and eyelashes.

A pint and a half / around a litre of amniotic fluid now surrounds your baby but that volume decreases as she gets bigger and has less room in your uterus. As you and the baby continue to grow, don't be alarmed if you feel breathless, as if you can't get enough air; it's just your uterus pressing against your diaphragm. There is a light at the end of the tunnel though. At about 34 weeks (or just before birth, if this is your second or third pregnancy), your baby's head will move down into your pelvis as the baby gets into the right position for birth. That will make breathing and eating a lot easier.

How your life's changing

You've probably gained quite a bit this month - typically 1.4-1.8 kg/3-4 lb. Gaining 450 g/1 lb a week is quite normal during the last three months. Your baby's demands for nutrients are at their greatest in the final pre-birth growth spurt. You may love or loathe your increasing size - either way, remind yourself of 50 reasons why it's great to be pregnant.

It's never too late to stop smoking, as your baby will benefit from an increased oxygen supply within days of you quitting. Try to encourage those close to you who smoke to give up, too - not only will this help you to stop smoking but it may help your baby in the longer term. Research has shown that babies are at higher risk of cot death / SIDS if a parent or caregiver smokes around them.

Getting a good night's sleep can become more difficult again in the third trimester. As your bump grows, getting and staying comfortable is harder and you may find pressure on your bladder means midnight trips to the loo make an unwelcome but necessary return. Vivid dreams can also affect the quality of your sleep leaving you feeling disturbed or inspired! Don't forget to ask your husband about his dreams, too.

BABYCENTER UPDATES...28 WEEKS

You are now 28 weeks pregnant (or in your 29th week if that's how you prefer to count it).

How your baby's growing

Your baby can now open his eyes and will turn his head towards the source of any continuous bright light. His fingernails are budding, and fat layers are beginning to form as he gets ready for life outside the womb. If you like the thought of interacting with your baby while he's still in the womb, then singing and reading to your baby is a good way to do it - but don't worry if you feel uncomfortable - it's not for everyone. By this week, your baby weighs nearly 2.3 pounds / a little over 1 kilogram and may measure 14.8 inches / 38 centimetres from top to toe.

You may notice about now, that your baby moves around a lot more when you have a bath or shower. She's responding to the light and noise. Your breasts may begin to produce colostrum, the concentrated early milk, so don't be surprised if they leak a little.

How your life's changing

There's not long to go now. The final trimester starts this week and lasts until the end of your pregnancy - usually week 40 or beyond. Most women gain an average of 5 kg/11 lb during this time. You may see your doctor more often from now on but you don't have to wait for an appointment if you want to discuss anything - just ring.

You're in the home stretch. The third trimester typically starts at week 29 and lasts until week 40 and sometimes even beyond. (Don't worry - 42 weeks is the maximum! After that, a woman usually is induced to give birth.) Most women gain an average of 11 pounds / 5 kilograms during this trimester.

You're probably vacillating between two feelings: "I've been pregnant forever" and "Help, I'm not ready for this." Don't worry, you're not the only one. Swapping experiences with other women in your antenatal class can be reassuring. Try to arrange a tour of your hospital's labour and delivery ward so you know what to expect. Your antenatal class may organise one or the hospital may have an open evening, so ring to check. You could also read some of our birth stories to help you prepare for the big day. Checking off things on your to-do list can help. Start selecting possible baby names and begin thinking about life after the birth as well.

If you're a dad, you may be beginning to worry about having to watch your wife go through childbirth and wondering how helpful you'll be. Knowing the different stages of labour is a good place to start, then read up about labour partners to find out what you can do. Make sure you know what to expect if things don't go straightforwardly. Your baby may need help to be born so find out about assisted deliveries and caesarean section.

You'll probably be seeing your doctor more often in these last few weeks!!!

MASALAH KETIKA HAMIL - VARICOSE VEINS

Sekarang ni, ini la pulak masalah dalam end trimester 2 nak masuk 3 nih....susah giler nak berjalan masa mula-mula kene tuh...nak baring susah..duduk susah...berdiri susah...nak solat pun susah....kene ari jumaat...isnin & selasa siap amik Emergency Leave lagi...skang nih dah ok skit...tapi bila tgk dlm cermin masa jalan mcm penguin....huhuhu..tanya hubby i kalo tak cayer....

Why am I getting varicose veins in my legs?

Varicose veins develop or are aggravated in pregnancy because the growing uterus puts pressure on the pelvic veins and on the inferior vena cava (a large vein on the right side of the body that receives blood from the lower limbs and the greater part of the pelvic and abdominal organs). This increases blood pressure in the leg veins, and thus influences the development of varicose veins. As the baby grows and the uterus enlarges, the veins become even more prominent.

An increase in the hormone progesterone causes the walls of blood vessels to relax as well. You may just see the blue veins under your skin, or the veins may bulge; you may feel some pain, or no discomfort at all. Not pretty, we know, but varicose veins do tend to improve when pregnancy is over. Several factors, including family history and being overweight, can also contribute to the condition.

During pregnancy you're more prone to varicose veins in your legs -- though you can get them anywhere. Haemorrhoids, in fact, are technically varicose veins of the rectal area, while some women develop varicose veins in the vulva (the area around the vagina) while they are pregnant.

Can I prevent them?

You may be able to prevent them, or at least minimise them. The trick is to avoid putting too much pressure on your legs during pregnancy. Incorporate the following tips into your lifestyle even before you have a problem:

• Exercise daily -- even just a brisk walk around the block can help.

• Elevate your feet and legs whenever possible: Keep a stool or box under your desk, and try to lie down on your left side with your feet elevated on a pillow when at home. Since the inferior vena cava is on the right side, left-sided rest relieves it of the weight of the uterus; thus decreasing venous pressure in the lower extremities.

• Try sleeping on your left side with your feet on a pillow. Wedge a pillow behind your back to keep yourself tilted to the left side.

• Before getting out of bed in the morning, put on special support tights. By putting them on before standing, you'll prevent excess blood from gathering in your legs. Keep a clean pair of knickers and your tights under the pillow so you can easily put them on before getting out of bed. If you have a major problem with varicose veins your doctor can prescribe heavy duty tights but they are rather thick and can be uncomfortable in hot weather.

• Don't stand on your feet for long periods of time.

• Don't cross your legs when sitting down.

• Be aware that excessive weight gain can contribute to the problem.

Are they serious?

While varicose veins may itch or even hurt, their biggest effect is probably on your vanity. Chronic circulatory problems or blood clots resulting from varicose veins are unlikely. Only about five percent of people unfortunate enough to develop varicose veins in the first place develop small blood clots in their veins.

If you have a tender, reddened area on the surface of a varicose vein, coupled with fever, leg pain, or a rapid heartbeat, report it to your doctor without delay. In a small percentage of cases, rapid heartbeat and/or shortness of breath could be signs of a pulmonary embolism (when the blood clot has travelled to the lungs). If you experience shortness of breath and a rapid heartbeat, go to the nearest casualty department, or ring for an ambulance.

How do I get rid of them?

Sometimes varicose veins will subside on their own within three or four months of your baby's birth. But if the bulging veins become too uncomfortable to live with, you can have them corrected surgically. If you think you might want such surgery, you should probably wait until you've had all the children you want because unfortunately, varicose veins tend to worsen with each pregnancy.

BABYCENTER UPDATES...27 WEEKS

Hello deqno! 27 weeks pregnant

How your baby's growing


You're in the home stretch - two trimesters down, one more to go. Your baby is growing steadily as he prepares for delivery day. She will gain weight rapidly over the next weeks and, as the size of your bump increases, you may feel more breathless and tired. Your baby's acting more like a newborn now, too. She opens and closes her eyes, sleeps and wakes at regular intervals, and may suck a finger or thumb. She may also be hiccuping a lot this week, which explains that odd rhythmic sensation you've probably been feeling.

Now that you're approaching the final stage of pregnancy - your third trimester - your baby is really starting to grow and fill the available space in your uterus. Although they're still immature, your baby's lungs will function with some medical help, if she's born prematurely.

Your baby now weighs nearly 2 pounds / 875 grams and measures 14.5 inches / 36.6 centimetres from head to toe. Some experts believe that babies begin to dream by the 28th week. What do they dream about? No-one knows for certain but the brain is active this week as well. The characteristic grooves on the brain's surface start to appear and more brain tissue develops.

Chalk up any rhythmic movement you may be feeling to a case of the hiccups, which are common this week and throughout the pregnancy. Your baby has them but is breathing in amniotic fluid rather than air. A paper bag can't cure her hiccups, obviously, but an episode usually lasts only momentarily. The sensation for you may be strange but not unpleasant.

How your life's changing

Your body is altering rapidly now: your uterus is up near your rib cage and if you're unlucky you may discover the delights of leg cramps, haemorrhoids or varicose veins. (If it's any consolation, they should disappear after the birth.) Labour really isn't far away so if you haven't already signed up for a childbirth class, then find out if there is a space available on a course now. Since your uterus is now up near your rib cage, you may now find yourself short of breath if you haven't already. Starting now and continuing through the last three months of pregnancy, you may be plagued by itchy abdomen. Are pregnancy discomforts getting you down? Try some natural remedies to perk you up.

You're likely to have another antenatal appointment this week and you may have a blood test to check for pregnancy anaemia, a deficiency of red blood cells. Many pregnant women develop a mild case of the illness because of normal changes in the body. If your blood group is Rhesus-negative and you tested negative for Rh antibodies at an earlier appointment, you'll have a further test around now. You'll probably be tested for Rh antibodies this week or next and have an anti-D injection to combat the incompatibility. You may be offered a repeat injection at 36 weeks.

Believe it or not, studies have shown that a mum's breastfeeding success has a lot to do with her husband's attitude. If you're a new dad, it's time to bone up on breastfeeding basics so you can provide support after the baby's born. Your wife will need looking after in the first few weeks after the birth so be prepared to help out more around the house and at mealtimes, particularly if she has had a caesarean.

LEPAS LAGI SORANG....CONGRATS ZAZA

Congrats dear...sebenarnya i tak sihat hari ni....semenjak perut semakin membesar ni...baby mcm menekan bahagian kaki kanan i...so mcm susah je nak jalan and bangun bila duduk...tapi sempat gak la i p wedding zaza ni....walaupun sampai lambat...huhuhu

Moga korang bahagia dan kekal hingga ke akhir hayat.....mmuuuaaahhh...